Wednesday, September 13, 2006
Connected Friends
Yesterday got a comment that I had not been updating my blog so shall waste some time blogging. Just finished my KFC meal and It feels good to have someone to connect to. I forgot to tell my brother yesterday night that I wanted KFC but he bought it today nonetheless... Although it's cos of the discount coupons and not me but whatever... Haha... Think it must feel good to have someone able to read your feelings and being able to synchronise with you... Never had this kind of friend before, now and I don't think I will have one in the future... My thoughts are rather.... Complicated(Weird)... Haha...
Connectivity is a complicated matter. It's not like chemical reaction where you will expect a certain results when certain chemicals are mixed. Neither it's like physics where things are being monitored by laws. It's more like being able to meet your Bo Le, someone who will recognise your talents, accept your flaws and appreciate you for who you are... High connectivity does not neccessarily mean good friendship.. There may even be negative feelings between the two parties...
Friendship and connectivity both cannot be measured and hence it's a judgement call for anyone trying to gauge these two things. One man's meat may well be another man's poison. They are NOT a reciprocal kinda relationship... Therefore people get hurt in the World of Friends. On the other hand, no one can ever survive the whole life journey without any friend. How many friends are needed for this journey is different for everyone. Everyone is looking for different kind of friendship.
Some people are looking for close friends,
Some people are looking for more friends,
Some people are just satisfied to be alone,
Some people are just looking for friends.
Too much time has been wasted... Back to the first moment of the rest of my life!!